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My boyfriend forced himself on me in bed while I was asleep

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend forced himself on me and did something sexual to me which I’m just not into at all.

We have been together for ten years. I am 32 and he is 35.

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My boyfriend forced himself on me in bed while I was asleep, but he doesn't think he did anything wrong

He has always had different fetishes and wants to be adventurous in bed. I go along with it but only so far.

Last night I was asleep and what he did really hurt me.

I tried to stop him but he continued until he climaxed.

I was so shocked that I cried myself to sleep.

I don’t know what to think of him now.

He just said: “Sorry if I hurt you.”

He thinks he hasn’t done anything wrong.

DEIDRE SAYS: He’s done something criminally wrong.

This was sexual assault – rape if it involved penetration.

You said no and he carried on. No wonder you are looking at your relationship differently.

Find understanding help urgently through Rape Crisis (rapecrisis.org.uk, 0808 802 9999).

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